Get Sex Room Ready!

A place to go where no one knows. Your special getaway. A place to let your desires run free and become fulfilled. A respite from the troubles and tribulations of everyday life and society at large. A place of trust, lust, and fulfillment. Ultimately, a treasure trove of love and beauty. Somewhere to be held, caressed, and…spanked. The only dress code here is your birthday suit.

Imagine an area curated by you, from scratch, and belongs to only you. An encasement of your favorite textures, lighting, wall art, furniture, and… toys. Toys like wands and bullets. Toys such as nipple and clit suckers; penis pumps and cock rings. Maybe restraints, chains, rope, and cuffs live there. Possibly mirrors on the walls and the ceilings!? A room where the bed serves as the centerpiece.

A sex room is a sacred space to connect and explore; to enhance and strengthen your relationship to yourself and your partner(s); a template to go deeper and further. Try something new and treat yourself to a sex room! The sex room you imagine doesn’t have to have a dark dungeon-like vibe, but if that’s your thing by all means! The cool thing about a sex room is that, like any other room in your house, you should create it in such a way that it matches your personality and serves your most important needs and wants.

If you thrive sexually in an environment that is well lit, spacious, and tranquil, then your aesthetic choices for the sex room should match that. If “Netflix and chilling” on the couch is usually the earliest signs of foreplay in the relationship, then maybe the room is compatible with that- a couch, large screen, candles, sensual music, rose petals, and a fireplace may be the perfect sex scenery for you guys. On the other hand, if your vibe is more “hardcore”, then restraints hanging from the ceiling, whips, and electro-shock devices may be in your humble abode. Moreover, maybe your room has ALL of these elements!

A panacea of sex gear exists to make sex more interesting, thrilling, enchanting, and orgasmic. Consider adding a ramp or wedge by Liberator to make sex positions more comfortable and attainable (especially for longer periods of time). Sex benches and spanking benches are popular. Sex swings are awesome too. Check out the Fetish Fantasy Sex Swing or this Door Jam Sex Sling by Sportsheets!

A sex room should be as unique as you are and serve as a reflection of your deepest, most primitive, natural desires. Have fun with it! The journey of putting a sex room together can be as thrilling, exciting, and fulfilling as the activities that’ll take place once it’s completed. If you don't have an extra hidden room laying around, as many of us do not, then when the kids are gone a dressed up living room will have to suffice!